I knew i needed to address my insecurities. What Women Want in a Man: 15 Traits Women are Looking for in a Man Right Now. If you were too involved in the relationship and she needed space to analyze whether this is something that she wants, that space is going to be critical in this relationship, there is a significant chance that she could be feeling claustrophobic. With mothers day around the corner and her birthday, should I buy her flowers or completely stay away and let her initiate the call. I assured her that she was just overthinking and shes been doing everything fine but she stated its not fair to me because I should be her main priority but I am just simply not because she isnt happy with herself. About a month ago she asked me for spacethough we keep making plans and she keeps calling and texting. I asked her again if we were breaking up she said no oh, I asked her again if she love me she said yes but she doesnt want to be with any man right now she just wants to focus on her and her babies that she doesnt need a man in her life right now. I would step back and let her come to you. It is hard on me right now because I have no social life. Best of luck. When her mom asked if she was not feeling well as in depressed..well thats when I think she got the idea to do this. So at the moment she is leaving with me. And then I got its not about other men. I admit I wanted to make sure we both loved each other so I would ask her every 3 months. The article instructs us specifically not to text her. It will be better for both of us to stay separate. Best, is this a matter of give her time and space, or do you think it could be possibly steming from something else? I told her we can work it out and i will do whatever is required despite my several request she didnt change her mind. I started dating my girlfriend 7 weeks ago. Hi there, I been with my common law partner for 9 years she been my best friend and me hers, Weve had out fair share of conflicts but the the straw was when we\ I was going through a little trust issue with the men at her work so on day she approached me and asked if we had plans to go to the movies on Saturday ( cought me by surprise as its not something we do), I said no and she said well then im going to go play poker from 2 pm til 11 pm with the guys (men) from work, I did not say no but did say I thought it was inappropriate for a spouse to do that unless I was at the least invited (I was not invited), she decided not to go, then the Sunday said she was leaving me and needed her time. It has been a week since she left and we havent talked. My GF and i have completed 3 years on sept 2018. Should I text her during this time just to tell her Im thinking of her or hope your well, or just leave her alone?? I though it was all good i am a good guy , and dont think i am that needy as never complain she goes out friends or text her much unless texts me if she says she seeing friends saturday day i ask when she wants to see me she says saturday night or sunday i come instead . I would need more information. Please reach out to me here to schedule a private coaching session https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching-2/ if you have any questions please feel free to comment back. 5 days ago I told her im not the same person i was before and Ive proven for a lot of times and she could see it. She means everything to me but I dont know what my next step is or what it should be..do you think theres still a chance in the future? Your happiness is YOUR responsibility. Deep breaths. Hey John, Thank you. They were hosting the engagement party and long story short, it was a mess. However, I did have one question on when/how to communicate. I asked if we are ok and she said YES but to take a step back and perhaps tone it down on the lovey dovey stuff. That was 2 days ago. The relationship went back to normal until about a month ago. and we speak for a while.she told me she quit the job beacuse she had pressure again.the last words she say after told she need time, she wants me to be good and care about me.i call her again before 7 days again.i wanted to ask what she doing .i wanted to meet her.to see her face for only 10 minutes.refuse to see me.and she say i dont have time right now.because was out with her bestfriend.and i tell her after her friend.and say will see.and i tell what will we see??? Do the things that make you happy and fulfill you from within. My girlfriend of 8 months (both our longest relationships) recently went distant about a week ago and a few days after wanted to talk. I told her I would give her space and only contact her in May after her exams. I gave her pretty much everything in the house. We got really close and were even talking about marriage. What do you think I should do? If you need more guidance I encourage you to book a session here so I can help you uncover this and get her back. Get involved in activities to meet people and go to the gym etc. I keep checking her IG even though we arent friends lol. I can help you with this. Apollonia offers a lot of free advice on her blog/Instagram/Facebook/YouTube channel. Apollonia. Basically nothing has changed in 5 years, we have fun, hook up but after bringing in the kids too much, those two weeks a month we didnt see each other, became seeing us weekly and also (my fault, I know) me making her my priority. Apollonia. When I tell her I love her she responds its OK. I said to her I will wait till she becomes ready again. What ir her birthday is soon? She said she needs space to figure out what she wants and will truly make her happy, she also said she really needs me to focus on my finances and bills and work, If I want a future with her. Some people fail and some people can come up on top. The last 3 years the relationship has been long distance with me flying every quarter to see her and the kids. In our daily routine we used to video call chat over text and call each other 3-4 times a day. It seems that she still has strong feelings for you but is unsure about things. Next i said i am really very sorry. We still did same type of stuff. She said she ultimately cant marry someone who doesnt share the same beliefs or views as her. She always says Im so good to her and always thinks of her. She had been in a very abusive marriage till mid of last year and has not been with anyone until we started going out in December of last year. I thought to text her but everyone told me not to text her and call her but i am thinking if i dont text and call her, will this not pull her apart from me? During the conversation she told me that her last relationship was a nightmare. Hello my name is Chad I. I could use some help with a important matter.. involving my relationship , and honestly dont know what to do .. please get back to me Chad, Hello Chad, No sex for 2 months, we lost our connection, and just days ago she was feeling good enough to have sex again. I just wanted to know what i could do, It was only 2 months ago when we were inseparable and were genuinely a very very in-love couple. Im so sorry that happened. She told she loved me and to just give her time that she does want to be with me but I dont know how to feel about all this. I sent her a dick pic 2 weeks ago (after she asked) and she saw it in the am and said wow good morning to you too. Reno, Met girl of my life about 4 months ago, both love each other physically and emotionally. She got very irritated and basically said FYI Im going there to help my mom food shop and when did you ever tell sit and have a talk with me and say you wanted to get together officially? Right now the relationship feels like its over, I feel good with myself because I know I did everything in my power to make her happy but I am worried for her especially because of the personal issues I mentioned above. 1. Am afraid that not communicating with her, she will move on. She feels Im too controlling and smothering her yet she makes sure that I know she has options with a sugar daddy. She said that her father is initiating a divorce with her mom as her father wants to get married with his mistress. I did what you shouldnt do initially and pleaded etc. We might see each other a couple times a week because of our busy schedules. Apollonia, Hi so Ive been dating this girl for just over 4 months, the first 3 months we had a ton of contact, these past 2 weeks tho she has started to distance herself from me and not really talk about whats going on, she has been saying she wants to be alone lately but every time she does she ends up texting like 5 hours later just saying hi, by the end of the night like 10 she does have convos with me and she tells me some things abt her day, she says its been stressful managing school, family and other things, she said she feels alone sometimes and needs some time for her self, she did open up to me yesterday, her parents are divorced and are constantly fighting and wanting each other in jail and her brother has suicidal tendencies, she has been hanging with her friends a ton more, not going out but going to their house, she has been drinking a ton more and sometimes smoking weed a lot more, she never really used to do that, she has been feeling sick these past 2 weeks and lightheaded and I feel like its not really a cold just more from anxiety and stress, but overall I have given her more space and sometimes we talk abt whats going on with her but she kinda avoid the question, I did reassure her that I am always here, and I want to help her through these rough times and she said thank you, what do you think is going on, oh and she recently visited a guy friend and went to his house, she told me that theyre really only friends because she helped him through his tough time when he tried to hang himself, they used to date like 2 years ago for a couple of months, Im not really worried abt it I just wanna know if thats normal, Im just confused and wanna know what to do. She said that i have a bad habit of forgetting things which i do, but its not like i dont care about what she has to say however i acknowledge that women can see that as me not caring. I try to help her in anyway I can because I still love & in love with her but I dont want to seem desperate or foolish. Thank you for taking the time to read When she says she needs space. As of last night she moved back to her parents house and plans to stay there for 2 weeks whilst she tries to work out how she feels, She also speaks to a therapist about her battle against depression. She admitted during a text fight that she still loved me, but was so stressed out about everything in her life. Even if I dont really want to do it, I have got to the point where it might be the only solution to our relation How can I win her back again but also give her the time we both need to heal & increase the love so that this never happens again? Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that can have long-term consequences for the victim. This does not mean that you say its change and then its fixed it means you say nothing and show through actions. Ive also decided to stop posting on Instagram as well to fully not contact her. Thank you so much. Its been a week since we last talked and Ive been kind of stressed and anxious that shes gonna move on and lose feelings for me for how long shes asking. Hope this helps! Now i have few things to share with you. I recently broke up with my girlfriend in April. Hi Rob, Its been a tough few weeks as Ive pulled myself back from her especially given we work together (albeit remotely at the moment). Best, I dont think her feelings towards me would have changed, and it really is just like she said that new feelings arent whats needed for her right now. We would talk every two or three days and Id text her and see how shes doing and what not and shed tell me that shed have some good days, but also lots of bad days. Thanks, Best of luck with everything. Make plans with your friends, go on that vacation youve been eying Change your life and master your attraction. She feels for some reason that having kids and getting married are a deal breaker. For some reason I feel insecure some times questioning it because she has days she is more matter of fact or distant. Any help would be appreciated. Team Apollonia, Hello LJ, She didnt remember and she never remembers even my birthday. 100% you are doing the right thing. https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching-2/ Will she come back? You can find her expert advice on is she using me, plus a couple of other of your core professional services, through her YouTube Channel, and Attract a Woman E-Book. The key here is finding the value that you offer her and not having to make up for the things that YOU think you may lack. I try to help her around the house as much as I can, but I am gone most of the day and I can only do so much. Then in the evening I texted her I was giving her the space she needed and for her to let me know when she wanted to see me again. Many thanks for your Feminine essence of guidance for us men, Me a my girlfriend have been going out for over a year and everything was going great. Apollonia, Hi Apollonia! Loving the positivity! A bit of the back story is that we were pretty good for a couple of years, my parents are divorcing ever since November and my sister has been going through a bad time ever since Christmas. we have a lot of valuable content on our channel and podcast. I wouldnt like it to be. (Which was true). Ive kind of lost my head, become needy, jealous. Then tell her this is not something that you will tolerate and she can choose to respect the relationship or not. What can I do please help, am afraid that she will leave me, or she is losing feelings for me, or if I gave her space she will get a chance to forger about me, because she even changed how she save me in her phone. I know that she cares and loves me and I told her that I would respect her to give her the time and space. I just dont want to lose her and maybe i will tell her how i feel because trust me shes so different from all the other girls that ive talked to. I didnt give her the space she asked for because i felt cheated on. I got out, we went for a week Stay-cation with the kids to Great wolf lodge which was a great time and she paid for everything even food but it was ok with her, pretty much we she was all about me and talked on the phone and texted even when she went to visit her family to Kansas we facetime on the phone every day and every night with the kids as well. She found another job, cause it pays better as well then we can actually date, cause she cant date customers as well as I. I think Im move venting then actually asking questions, but do you think Im doing the right move? Yes, I think this is a great game plan. She said it had only been 2 weeks and if Im expecting any hope right now the answer would be no. We had talked ab me opening up more, and I thought I was really trying. Should I keep continuing to give her space? The thing is she still hasnt told but opened to her close friend who told me. Its been 24 hours only lol. As hard as it is I havent text her since then. Things will be the way they are meant to be. Which has now caused this issue that she said she wants to be on her own she doesnt know what she wants, she just said she doesnt feel like herself anymore. When someone gaslights you, Read More Gaslighting In A Relationship: The 5 Signs Of Gaslighting & How To Stop It!Continue, Have you heard about the fearless women who is transforming and impacting hundreds of thousands of mens lives all across the globe and taking the relationship industry by storm? She still checking my stories. She said she doesnt know if I can be that person who can fill your heart with love. Hope you are able to reply to this. She asked me if i dont feel guilty, i did not respond. she told me she wanna leave me please I beg you leave me alone. Best, I thanked her and said can we be candid and said what do you want to do. If she has said she needs space for a few weeks, take that time to do whatever you please. Wishing you the best! I would have to know more details about the relationship through a coaching session to give you exact advice. We look forward to assisting you! This completely depends on why the space was needed. My question to you is, do I still have a girlfriend? Hey Sam. I have been with my girl for 2 1/2yrs. We had attempted intimacy 3x but she has anxiety/depression and I have ED from diabetes. She said that she needs some places. I met this girl She said that a couple weeks might do us both good or maybe after Spring break or something and that shell see how she feels then. I have a girl friend of about 3 years.. We broke up last year December and reconciled in march this year..yesterday she told me that she need her own space because she have personal problems of which she needs to solve She has been a distance quite a bit, she blame me if not being a supportive boyfriend to her dreams..she even told me that all the problems we have reminds her our past problem.. All of a sudden she said she wants to be alone at the moment and can only handle her life we both had a lot of stress lately her with dealing with debts and working a lot of the time and me with my children Ive given her space no calls or texts I do bump into her at work most days and she does still talk to me at work I do love this woman very much and want to make us work again please can you help, Hi Jeremy, The best thing that you can do to not push her away is improve your social life. Just last week she seemed different and asked she needs time and space to think. However, about four years ago, she was in a very abusive relationship. I would like to relocate to a new place with her, where we both could have a more balanced life. Heres where you could go to contact a coach. There is nothing more attractive than a man having ambition. We havent been separated too long. She said she loves me but when I asked if as a friend or romantically she said she isnt sure exactly how she feels right now. She said this is an impulsive decision, and feels she needs to discover why shes on low self esteem. She said that she isnt breaking up with me and isnt using the break to slowly put me down. I admittedly didnt handle that well and started to panic that first day and begged her to call me. I am not 100% sure that this guy is just a friend. To add to her stresses her mum has just had to have an eye operation which we hope isnt cancerous. She was very affictionate and caring. I would suggest booking a private coaching session if you need more help through this. She always mentioned she wanted to live here even if when we just met and had no relationship, so she likes here. There is also about a half dozen other men interested in her. She was fine on Monday, but on tuesday morning she just sprung this on me. Two weeks ago, she stated she had a gut feeling about me and do not think it is going to work. I am enjoying my life but whenever she posts anything on social media i get upset. She out of the blue said she wasnt happy anymore and it was nothing that I had done.
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